FORGIVENESS

I love love love Tv shows, yesterday while watching "Being Mary-Jane" I heard something that touched me and I decided to share. Here goes;
                                               " Everyone wants to know how to move on from a tough time in their life, the point is people I see, the people tend to act out moving on, when in fact the only way to truly do it, to really do it is to start with forgiveness. Whether you're learning to forgive yourself for years of repeated disappointments, or whether you are searching to forgive the ones you love for repeatedly disappointing you, there will come a time where you will be asked to utter the words ''I forgive you".  In that moment you have a choice, you can suffer defeat and remain a failure or you can rise from the ashes and move forward. I say choose forgiveness".  
      
             Not forgiving yourself causes limitation, It limits your growth in ways that you might not even know. It's actually harder than forgiving someone else. You can act out healing and moving on but when you don't forgive yourself you will still remain at the same place, It's like making a mistake until you learn the lesson, you will keep on making the same mistake but in different ways. Some steps that I am taking to learn how to forgive myself.
1. Practising Self Acceptance
2.Understanding The Importance Of Self Forgiveness
3.Accepting My Emotions
4.Learning To Let Go Of Other People's Expectations Of Me
5.Writing
6.Seeing It As A Journey
So far I am doing okay, I have been repeating these steps over and over, and I will keep repeating them till I get to the end of my journey.
 Life Goes On So Forgive And Forget. :)