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Wednesday 26 November 2014

BROKEN



My faith in God has been tested one too many times this year, today I had to ask myself the question I NEVER want to ask myself again. Is there really a God?

Monday 24 November 2014

TOTALLY RANDOM.....

   Today is my friend's graduation, (shout out to @megtedy_) so while we were in the bathroom doing our "hair business" this thought popped into my head(no shade to anyone oh) here it goes; My friend's hair is natural #teamnatural  yay!! mine is relaxed #booooooo, hahaha. Alright back to the thought, So nowadays the new trend is natural hair.

Monday 3 November 2014

What's Friendship?

Something happened recently, okay so! here goes.... I reached out to one of my friends that I haven't seen in a while, better still I really haven't connected with her and I missed her. She said I hurt her, made her feel less important. I was shocked, not because of what she said I did. But because she kept it to herself for this long and never mentioned a word about it. We are humans, we all make mistakes even in our relationships.
  There are little things that we might overlook or take for granted that would mean the world to others.
I personally, tend to keep my feelings to myself. If there is one thing I learnt over the past few months, it is to TALK! tell the other person and get over with it. When you keep things bottled up it ends a beautiful friendship.
  So I ask, What is friendship all about? if we cant't tell one another "you really hurt me today" or " I don't like what you said or did" this could help the other person sit up.
There is a quote by Robert Brault that says "Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got" I don't think this should be applicable to people you love. Correct them, point it out, (they might not know), listen to their own side, whether it makes sense or not, after all no one is perfect and move on. I would rather get the apology there and then, than learn to accept the apology that I might never get because I didn't say something.
      Oh Well!!!! la vida continua.