African Men And Love

I asked an older friend (a guy) What is love to an African man? When its easy for him to keep a girlfriend outside even when he is married. And he said that love is being able to provide for your woman, spoil her with money and gifts, defend her in public that she should be content with that, and not poke her  nose into his other affairs that has nothing to do with her. Another guy who over heard us chipped in " An African man, will always keep another woman outside, its in our blood" and they laughed. This got me thinking are we (women) supposed to go into marriage expecting our husbands to have a girlfriend outside? Is cheating supposed to be acceptable cause "it's in their blood". I truly disagree oh, in church two people are joined together not three. Anyway maybe to most African men not my special African man when he comes along. lol 

   What do you guys think love is to an African man.