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Saturday 14 March 2015

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This has been on my mind for weeks now.

          WHAT IF HE IS GOD-FEARING AND ZERO SEX APPEAL? 

 I used he because I don't think a man will go for a woman that he doesn't find attractive. Women on the other hand, when we come to a certain age we face the pressure, all we are being told is, he just has to be God- fearing he will treat you right. What of sex appeal?
Shouldn't that matter also?
 If there is a day that I really want people to read this blog, it's today cause I would really want to hear what other people think about this.  Don't get me wrong, God is everything but shouldn't there be a balance?

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7 comments:

  1. Anonymous3/14/2015 2:51 pm

    I believe that every man/woman should have something they should look out for in their partner. A particular quality or qualities and it differs in people. So when you know yours, don't compromise. A God fearing person is one of the best quality a person can have.

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  2. Mfon monday3/14/2015 2:57 pm

    I strong share in the philosophy of being attracted to someone first before morality. No matter how angelic in character a spouse is, if there is no sexual attraction, there is always bound to be friction in their union. However, I'm not trying to undermine the place of good character, all I'm trying to say is that good character n sexual attraction are both indispensable.

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  3. Anonymous3/14/2015 3:33 pm

    I believe there should be a balance..surely there must be somone out the that has a good measure of both...marriage is too serious a union to enter wif half baked bread...bfor u find urself seeking sexual satisfaction somwer else...get a good God fearing man dats sexually compatible wif u.

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  4. Eddie3/14/2015 4:02 pm

    In as much as the fear of God is non-negotiable for all humans, sex appeal on the other hand is very important as well and not even subject to a debate. Except a spouse is saying it's the fear of God that turns him on, instead of the person you're in a relationship with which I strongly doubt.

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  5. Anonymous3/14/2015 7:37 pm

    If dia is no balance...one of them wld break the tide & start sleeping outside.

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  6. Rabboni3/15/2015 12:30 pm

    For me, sexual attraction is Crucial in a Union, since this is going to be a long voyage, it's important to set sail with someone who sparks your fire. At a certain age, women compromise their real desires on the alter of pressure, I do not understimate the power of God in fixing things, however, God respects our choices, and we have always made our own choices. If purchased, the shoe will be worn for a long time. It's important to at least buy a size that fits.

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  7. Anonymous3/15/2015 10:01 pm

    There has to be a balance as I duly believe but having a God fearing spouse is very important. You can have all the Sex you desire and in ways unimaginable...but where's the happiness knowing you have been sexuality idolised without the due respect of being a partner in the journey of life? finding a completely compatible partner is quite rare these days; but the lucky ones do and still it's not as rosy as it is painted.
    God fearing and sexually appealing are indices in the marriage equation. Sex doesn't breed respect...God fearing I know would. disrespect him/her and makeup with Sex cos you know that's the mumu button: but for how long?
    Sex breeds momentary happiness due to satisfaction; and at the end, u sink into the illusion that your husband isn't really yours to have and to hold except in bed! And that bed in itself can be an abuse of your humanity!
    I believe let him be God fearing and loving and maybe touches you 3x a week *dont shoot me ladies*...than otherwise. a woman can always make a man touch her. Can we men really say no to someone we really love?
    Ladies work your magic but crave a God fearing man.
    Nutty!!!

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